tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-116698542024-03-07T04:26:34.738-05:00Free WordsDiane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.comBlogger269125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-31124230452570191262023-08-07T21:39:00.000-04:002023-08-07T21:39:49.497-04:00<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">My Life is Like a Matinee </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">These days, getting ready for almost any activity involves some time-consuming preparation at night, and in the morning. That leaves me with only the afternoon and a little of the early evening to get into any mischief, or to do any necessary but boring chores. <br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">I'm in my eighth decade now and am still learning to cope with my new status. It's not easy because there are hardly any precedents in my family. No role models, unless I count my former husband but he's English and from the carry-on-come-what may generation. I can't count him and besides that, I relate more to the carry-on while complaining generation. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">Preparing for sleep includes several more steps that it did when I was a sprightly young thing. I need to set up the coffee maker and make sure there is both water and ground coffee in the appliance. Hot water in the morning just doesn't have the same nearly gonzo effect as coffee. And if I forget to add the water the smell of hot metal on glass isn't delightful. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">All the things I might need in the night have to sit on top of the dresser by my bed. Did I mention drugs? Well, aspirin and acetaminophen have a home there. My cell phone goes up there too just in case, along with water in a sippy cup I try not to knock over. Most importantly, whatever book or magazine I'm reading must be handy and my heating pad needs to warm up the spot where my always-cold feet go. Yes, even if it is ninety degrees Fahrenheit, my nest must be warm. I read until my eyes begin to close. At that point I get up and visit the bathroom once more; then I return to bed and turn the bedside light out. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">Naturally, I begin to worry about the state of the world and whether I turned the computer off and what I need to do the next day. After all what is the dark for, except thinking of what one puts off thinking about during the day. Never mind though, the morning will arrive soon enough. Sometimes it arrives at three a.m. <br /></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">Normally, I wake between six and seven a.m., partly because I have to pee and partly because various parts of my body have decided to complain. I sit on the side of the bed and slowly retrieve my slippers and put them on. Yes, even if it is ninety degrees Fahrenheit, I need them.. The kitchen floor is non-slip but can be cold. I take no chances. I turn on the coffee machine and proceed to the living room to open the curtains and turn on the computer. </span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;"> I fetch my mug of coffee and begin my day by checking my email. Then I check the news sites, my local TV station news, the CBC news and then the Guardian news. after that, I look on Facebook to see if any of my friends have posted there. I now know that the world continues to be in an unholy mess. It's therefore time for me to do The Guardian crossword and the Globe and Mail crossword. That reassures me that some parts of me, and the world still function. I do some more internet browsing.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">Suddenly, it's 10:30 a.m. and I'm still in my pyjamas. If I'm going to get anything done, I need to shower and dress. Showering means having my walker on hand and being extremely careful entering and exiting the tub. Unfortunately my bones are older than the rest of me. They aged without my permission, and I am not best pleased. My skin didn't ask my permission to get as dry as the Sahara dessert either. So, my next task involves slathering it with a vitamin E cream. I have no idea if it is helping but it does increase the amount of laundry I have. Once I'm dressed I check my email accounts again and respond to any that need answers, then it's time for lunch.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">After that, it's prime time for me - between one p.m. and four p.m. I might be at my peak performance time. I could work on my current project, or I could do some cleaning, or I could contact friends, or I could continue reading. But, oh the couch looks alluring and it may be time for a nap before supper. Not every day needs a matinee performance.</span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: large;">Til the next adventure. </span><br /></p>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-73124798128808769992022-02-13T22:08:00.000-05:002022-02-13T22:08:37.253-05:00<p><span style="color: #2b00fe;"><b> <span style="font-size: x-large;">Aging Gratefully During a Pandemic</span></b></span></p><p><span style="color: #2b00fe;"><b><span style="font-size: x-large;"> </span></b></span><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-indent: 36.0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; line-height: 150%;">I do not age gracefully. Even as a youngster I wasn’t
physically graceful. I am; however, grateful for some of my circumstances
during the COVID 19 pandemic.<span> </span>I live
alone so I’m accustomed to enjoying my own company, although sometimes do I get
on my own nerves. When I was tired after my third COVID 19 vaccination, I went
to bed without setting up my coffee maker. The next morning, after I managed to
make coffee while in my pre-caffeinated state, I decided to be thankful that
the machine is only moderately difficult to fill and only a few grains of
coffee landed on the kitchen floor.</span></span></p><span style="font-size: large;">
</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; line-height: 150%;"><span> </span>Eating is one of my
favourite occupations. I miss dining in restaurants with friends, even though we
didn’t meet very often. I’ve become best buddies with my refrigerator and its
small freezer compartment. Sometimes, I just open the door to see if by some
miracle there’s anything new inside. At last, I understand why my grandsons
would open the family’s fridge door and stand gazing at its contents. I’m truly
grateful form my fridge and for enough money to fill it.</span></span></p><span style="font-size: large;">
</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-indent: 36.0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; line-height: 150%;">I’m thankful also for refrigerated grocery delivery
trucks.<span> </span>These days, I order my food
stuffs online and have them delivered. Of course, that requires making a list
ahead of time. It also requires knowing where I put the list, or failing that,
starting a second list. <span> </span>I can get some
non-grocery items from the same source and that helps too, if I remember what I
need.</span></span></p><span style="font-size: large;">
</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-indent: 36.0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; line-height: 150%;">Going out to a real store is a major adventure and I
don’t do it often. In fact, by the time all this is over, entire neighbourhoods
may have changed before I see them again. And, I have no idea what has happened
at the local shopping malls. I haven’t been to one in two years. There may be
new stores, or fewer stores, or zombies might be roaming the corridors. I’d be
grateful not to see them.</span></span></p><span style="font-size: large;">
</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-indent: 36.0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; line-height: 150%;">Staying inside so much has led me to modified
voyeurism. From my windows, I see the corner where the school bus stops to pick
up local children. I notice how many of them are waiting in the morning. One
day, the youngest one with the pink boots is missing. I wonder if the child is
okay. When she appears the next day, I’m happy to see her grubbing in the snow
bank.</span></span></p><span style="font-size: large;">
</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-indent: 36.0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; line-height: 150%;">Because I am inside so much, I’m often online,
probably too often. On the one hand, I’ve learned more about many frivolous
things. <span> </span>For example, I now know what
women wore under their dresses in the Victorian era. On the other hand, I’ve learned
a bit more about Canadian and world history. That’s a bonus, I think.</span></span></p><span style="font-size: large;">
</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-indent: 36.0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; line-height: 150%;">When I’m free to wander places at will, I’m not sure how
far I’ll go. Due to the pandemic, I’ve come to truly appreciate my home as my
haven and I’m grateful to be in it. <span> </span>I
hope all your homes are safe places.</span></span></p>
Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-63091550152450905752021-05-29T16:16:00.000-04:002021-05-29T16:16:37.047-04:00<p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-large;">The Making of Waves - Stories from the Magic Filing Cabinet.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Many writers save all the versions of their work and the feedback on it that they receive from various sources such as critique groups, writers in residence, friends, and sometimes beta readers. I store printed copies of some work in a small filing cabinet next to my desktop computer. In there, it's out of sight but perhaps not out of my mind. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-size: medium;">When the pandemic continued and we headed toward the second year of staying put, life slowed down for me. I still miss my Viking and my involvement with the Rockway Entertainers chorus but there was time to do more than to write the occasional haiku and On-The-Buses note for my Facebook page. If I could find the energy, the objectivity and the stamina I might be able to put some of my short stories together as a collection. I chose eleven from my filing cabinet stash.<br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> I hadn't reread the stories in a long time. I had always found it difficult to accept criticism of my writing, especially when it was blunt. However, when I began to rewrite them, I was less hampered by previous impressions and critiques, and more able to refine them. Two dear friends, Lori Hahnel and Dee Miller helped me with editing and proofreading.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-size: medium;">I chose to self-publish the stories partly because of the time factor. Small presses can take eons to decide on whether to publish a writer's work. They have a hard time surviving in these Amazon dominant days. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-size: medium;">After some research I chose<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"><span><span style="background-color: #fff2cc;"></span></span></span> www.volumesdirect.com the publishing division of M & T Printing, a local company. You can find Waves in the fiction section.<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"><span></span></span></span><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: helvetica; font-size: x-large;"> </span><br /></p>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-36637284353649131292020-11-23T13:50:00.001-05:002020-11-23T13:50:51.694-05:00<p> <span style="font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-size: large;">Blog Revival Time</span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">It's been an age since I posted here. Of course lots has happened to all of us. The only writing I did was posting comments, On the Bus pieces, musings and haikus on Facebook. However, this autumn, the short stories that lived in my filing cabinet finally shouted loud enough that I had to take them out, and rework them.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Thanks to the help of friends they will be ready to publish early in the new year. I will write more about the collection when the launch is closer. In the meantime, I hope everyone stays safe and well. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-29650250944374065862017-07-16T18:57:00.000-04:002017-07-17T14:04:44.395-04:00I'm Not a Pillar or a Cornerstone. Maybe I'm a Small BrickWhen my dear partner died, I vowed not to rush into anything new until I felt ready. Lately, I've been considering what my future options might be now that I am alone, again. It's not that I lack choices. I have many, perhaps too many. There are writing projects waiting. My apartment could use some redecorating. The sheet music files our choir uses need my attention. There are a lot of 'volunteer opportunities' available for someone like me - an older woman who is not currently a care-giver, is spouse-less, and has no dependent relatives. I am a VIP (visitor in the parish) for members of the church I attend, but I hesitate to add more 'opportunities'.<br />
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I suspect I'm not designed to be a pillar of the church, or a pillar or cornerstone in the community. I know and respect the people who are. I don't know what they are made of, but it is something above and beyond my mortal capacity. A lot of pillars are women. Women who care for dying family members at home never get mentioned; but they are family cornerstones. Women who make 300 pies and sandwiches routinely for church or community events and who turn out week after week to do the work that keeps churches and charities running are pillars. Women who chair committees in their spare time between caring for aging parents, and ferrying teens and adult children without cars to appointments are cornerstones.<br />
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The girls of my generation, the baby-buster generation born slightly before and during World War II, had as role models the young women and mothers who cared for family and community. They worked, if they needed to, or wanted to; and, if they were married, if their husbands agreed to it. In addition, they volunteered for many of the duties that keep society working as a matter of course. Also, because there was no other option, they looked after aged family members who needed care at home. A number of these role models are still around, or have left us very recently. Were they made of stronger material? Probably not. They did what they were sure they had to do. However; it worries me when a pillar falls ill, or dies.<br />
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A slightly older woman friend, who is also a member of the baby-buster generation and who is very active in her church and community spoke to me recently about her desire to slow down and guilt she feels about that possibility. Who will do it, if I don't? That's the unasked question. I don't have a glib answer.<br />
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Younger women today have a lot to do, and there are a zillion expectations placed on them. Have a fulfilling career! Have a perfect family! Have a perfect life! Don't forget to look fabulous, always! No wonder being a pillar doesn't fit in. But, maybe just doing one thing, adding one small brick and doing it consistently will be all that can be offered to the community and/or the church. Maybe if enough of us do that one thing, and continue to do it the small bricks will keep the building standing.<br />
<br />Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-89321808466647736412015-08-09T15:55:00.001-04:002015-08-09T17:41:29.675-04:00One August Afternoon in Kitchener - A Photo Essay<br />
There is beauty in my neighbourhood in every season. These photos were all taken on August 5th, 2015, in the Civic Centre area of Kitchener, Ontario.<br />
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The Church of the Good Shepherd (Swedenborgian) is known locally for marrying many folk who <br />
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The Kitchener Fire Fighters' Memorial in Civic Centre Park. The internationally known sculptor is Timothy Schmaltz (<a href="http://www.timschmaltz.com/">www.TimSchmaltz.com</a>). <br />
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The Waterloo County Gaol Garden is small but delightful and has a fountain. The stone walls are remnants of the original jail which was built in 1852.<br />
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Tall natural grasses in front of the Region of Waterloo headquarters are part of the Naturescape Demonstarion Garden.</div>
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A flowered path along the side of St. Andrew's Presbyterian church leads to the contemplative space in the next photo<br />
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The Hibner Park fountain is also a compass. It was built in 1939 and replaced an earlier fountain which had occupied the same site circa 1897.</div>
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Dogs, rabbits, a fox or two, and local people all enjoy this small semi-wild patch of land in the heart of the Civic Centre neighbourhood. </div>
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These photos help to explain my fondness for my adopted city. I've lived here for eleven years and hope to enjoy my surroundings for many more years.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I haven't posted here in a long time. During my blogging break, my friend, The Bear, died. There was a fair bit to do after that, including sorting through more of his personal papers. He had been just a little too young to enlist in World War II, but his older brothers had both served in the Canadian forces. One was killed overseas and one returned. The Bear said his mother's grief for the lost one never abated. I was thinking about them again this morning, and about all our Canadian Veterans*, especially after hearing the latest federal budget news.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Before I talk about my budget concerns, I'd like to say: I wish our military could only be used for peace-keeping. In an ideal world, we wouldn't need to have a military; but that is not the world we live in. Like many Canadians, I have military connections. My grandfather was a World War I Veteran, my former husband is a World War II Veteran. For many years, I worked with Veterans at Sunnybrook Medical Sciences Centre and later, I worked for them in various social service capacities. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">When I see Veterans being patronized by the Minister of Veterans' Affairs Canada - I see red, and it's not the red of the maple leaf. And I turn red - with shame. We have enough money to keep all the Veterans' Affairs offices open - in fact, we have enough money to add more offices. It could be done, but it won't be done while the Harpercons are in office. Of course online services should be increased, but they are not accessible to all Veterans. Of course there should be more trained professionals to work with the men and women who suffer from severe physical and mental stress due to previous combat or peace-keeping traumas. But, that is not enough support. A lump-sum payment based on what Veterans refer to as the "meat chart" for body part injuries is also not enough support. The long-term costs of caring are not always predictable. What happens when the lump sum is used up? Go ahead and guess. We have homeless Veterans. We have Veterans who commit suicide. We have dead Veterans whose families do not have enough money to bury them. The federal government has added some money to the Last Post fund to help the families of indigent dead Veterans (a needs test must be passed). Gee, I'm proud. But - what about the living Veterans?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When I walked down the main drag of my home town, I discovered that Lazare's furs has closed and Shanfields Meyers, home of every china pattern and tschotske known to mankind, is in the process of closing. Several bars and restaurants have died and left untidy remnants. Cheque cashing stores with tacky neon signs have proliferated. But, I know that Windsor has dealt with boom and bust cycles for decades. Although my first view was distressing, I soon discovered a lot of hopeful signals and hopeful people during my short stay.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I visited the Art Gallery twice, once to see the exhibitions and once to attend three presentations about migrants. It's a lovely space and has areas where you can sit and look out over the river when you need a break from taking in the art. And, right behind the gallery a new aquatic centre is being built. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The waterfront is a place to walk, even in the winter, if the weather is good. There are no condos or hotels on the water side of Riverside Drive. There is a long uninterrupted stretch of parkland. I could hear the chimes of the carillon on Belle Island.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The casino and its hotel are highly visible from all parts of the downtown and I was in and out of the place about four times. It was not as busy as I had expected it to be even on the day when Tony Bennett would perform in the evening. There are legal casinos in Michigan now and that change has caused more Americans to gamble, and probably gambol at home. Detroit's population has also dropped to about 750,000. I didn't make any bets or play any of the machines. That doesn't appeal to me but what people look like and do when they are betting interests me. Some folk assume some seriously weird position.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My dining experiences were quite varied. During my visit I was able to have lunch with my sister-in-law at Rino's Kitchen. It was good and not too expensive. I also tried the cafe at the casino and wouldn't recommend it. The Keg was much better and was part of the treat-myself deal. MacDonald's was next to the hotel. The Tunnel BBQ is still near the tunnel exit and the interior is exactly as it was. They really should fix the floor behind the cake counter.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I had to visit the main library and it is quite near the hotel. When I walked in I could see a strange machine in separate area at the front of the building. At first I thought the library had rented the space to a business but that was not the case. The Windsor Public Library has an Espresso book machine. Yes! The machine that prints and binds paperback books. No one is allowed to jump up and down and shout hooray in the library but I almost did. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My grandfather's letters (from The Great War) have been whispering to me from inside my piano bench. I explained my idea to the library staff in charge of the machine and she said it is exactly the kind of book they hope the machine will be used for. So now I have a non-fiction project. Maybe that also explains why my fiction brain has refused to cooperate no matter how I have tried. I need to do this first, and then see what happens.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Until the next time.</span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-36431687409257670422012-12-21T19:18:00.000-05:002012-12-21T19:18:01.580-05:00The Roast Beast and Quilts - Christmas Memories<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Once upon a time but not that long ago, when my daughter was a child we enjoyed Christmas Day dinners with my mother. The table would be set with her rose-patterned Royal Albert bone china, cornflower crystal glasses and Rogers Brothers silverware. The meal was almost always roast 'beast' (eye of round) with mashed potatoes, mom's famous gravy, another vegetable or two or three, a salad that was mostly iceberg lettuce and strawberries with heavy cream to finish the feast. Of course cookies and chocolates and nuts were consumed, before and after the main event. We ate dinner sometime between 2 p.m. and 3 p.m. and then the gifts were opened. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: large;">Because my mom's Christmas tree was small, artificial, and sat atop her cedar chest, she usually stashed any presents that wouldn't fit under the tree on the floor in a white laundry basket. Each year, there would be a quilt for me, one for my brother, and in later years, quilts for my daughter too. I miss my mother, always, but her quilts still comfort me. They represent the spirit of the holidays - loving care.</span><br />
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Often I want more when I hear a snippet of conversation; but, I never hear the outcome unless I make up my own version. What other people may see and how they might interpret what they see is also a fascination. Yesterday, I received a payment from a writer I'm working with. She had given me a cheque and later decided she would make two payments at once, so she brought cash. I met her in my building's lobby. She gave me an envelope and I gave her the folded cheque. If anyone was watching us (there's a lobby camera) our actions would be open to various interpretations. We looked innocent but not all drug dealers look dangerous.<br />
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As for books, some are page turners but the ones I enjoy the most pull me forward because I want to know more about the characters and not just their actions, but their thoughts. When I read a certain type of mystery, I can skim through the gory parts looking for clues. When I read an Alice Munro story, I savour every word. When I read Anne Lamott, I cry then I laugh, sometimes over the course of three pages. It's her utter honesty that is so magnificent.<br />
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What's next in my life? Surgery in a few days. Afterward I'll be sticking close to home for a while. Maybe conversation will lead to a story.<br />
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What is around the corner for you?Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-84514298477772682972012-08-23T20:56:00.002-04:002012-08-23T20:56:49.866-04:00Summer is Waving a Hot Goodbye<span style="color: blue; font-size: large;">The Canadian National Exhibition opened last week. That's always a signal that summer is on her way out of town and out of country too. But before she goes, we'll get another blast of hot and sultry.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-size: large;">While that's happening, my family is enjoying the Great Canadian Outdoors, eastern style. Frank, my eldest grandson, is camping on the lake near Port Burwell and Sam, my younger grandson, is on a five day river raft expedition down the Dumaine River in Quebec. My daughter and I enjoyed a campfire in her back yard on Wednesday evening. I won't name the location in case the fire pit bylaw enforcers, whoever they are, find out about this nefarious activity.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Also, the Viking and I were able to escape from the city on the weekend. It was a perfect day for driving through the countryside. On our return journey, we stopped in Stratford and strolled down the main street stepping into several shops along the way. I had to go into the bookstore of course. How could anyone not go into a book store called The Book Vault? I was delighted when I found three books I couldn't resist. <em>The Story of Yiddish</em> by Neal Karlen, <em>The Highly Selective dictionary for the Extraordinarily Literate</em>, by Eugene Ehrlich, </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-size: large;">and <em>Colombo's All-Time Great Canadian Quotations</em>, by John Robert Columbo. All those books for $15.72, harmonized sales tax included. Obviously they did not sell at their original prices. </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-size: large;">I had not read any poetry in quite a while but then on a brief visit to the library, <em>Impact: the Titanic poems</em>, by Billeh Nickerson jumped into my hand. Powerful, moving, and yet spare, his poems capture the people, the ship, and the sinking. I had to read slowly with many breaks between the poems in order to appreciate all of them. </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Until the next time.</span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-88031124605120011752012-03-04T16:01:00.004-05:002012-03-04T16:01:47.477-05:00Mysterious Stuff, or Why Does Anyone Believe These Things?<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">There are days, many days, when I can't understand Americans. There are also days when I can't understand my fellow Canadians.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Because Super Tuesday is very close, let me first talk about the American mysteries. To date, there are only four GOP candidates for the presidency of the U.S.A. who may have a shot at winning. Why would a person with any sense of how the real world operates want to vote for any of them? </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">If any one of the four is chosen to run or, worse yet, if any one of them actually becomes the president, the average American will suffer. Corporations will gain even more power than the overwhelming amount they have now. The rich will inevitably grow fatter and the poor, well they can just shuffle off into further obscurity and eventually the type of poverty the third world knows well. The poor and uninsured needn't look for pregnancy contraception, or for choice afterward and that is only the beginning. They have been told over and over again that all government roles are bad and low, low, lower, lowest taxes and smaller government (hah!) will benefit everyone. </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Why do they believe the lie that all taxes are evil? And, where do they think the money to support services provided by the government will come from? </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Americans are generous, but charities can't be expected to deal with every social problem. Will there be a return to the Victorian concept of work houses?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Why do Americans, and Canadians too, believe that anyone can advise them on what the stock market will do? No one knows, let me repeat that, no one knows. Most trading is done by advanced computer programs. Numbers are god in that game.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">The Canadian federal government is currently CRAP (Conservative Reform Alliance Party). </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Why do some Canadians believe that further belt tightening will somehow stimulate the economy and that we will all benefit from the trickle down effect of lower corporate taxes? </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">That has been proven to be wicked nonsense.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Till next time.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Susan Barclay's blog, Honey from the Hive is here :</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Jan Markley's blog is always worth reading and frequently her sense of humour shines through. She writes youug adult fiction. Her titles to date: <em>Dead Frog on the Porch</em>, and <em>Dead Bird Through The Cat Door.</em> </span><br />
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Between the 1990's and the 2000's the rate of poverty among seniors rose according to the Conference Board of Canada and, it continues to rise. Older single women form the largest group of poor seniors. We should not find that acceptable. At the same time, many work places are eliminating defined benefit pension plans and opting for defined contribution plans, or in many cases no pension plan at all. Oh happiness for companies, but not for their employees. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;">I hear someone muttering, you need to save and put money in RRSP's. I reply, it's good to remember that not everyone makes a wage that provides them with enough money left over to save significant amounts and furthermore, one crisis; for example, being out of work for more than a few months can wipe out the savings of a low-wage earner in less than a trice.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;">So is the answer to work longer and retire later? That may be a part of the answer. However; it is not easy to find work if you lose your job when you are over 50, or even worse, between 60 and 65. If you do find work, it will likely pay less and be less reliable. We have not yet reached the point where there are way too many jobs and too few people to fill them (except for a few trades and occupations). That is one among many reasons for maintaining and enhancing the Guaranteed Income Supplement for low income seniors. By the way, low income seniors are consumers too. We buy things, not as many things as before but we do spend and that also puts money into the economy. That brings me to my next question.</span></p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;">What is the role of the federal government? If Mr. Harper has his way, the primary role always will be to support business the most. Damn the torpedoes (and the environmentalists too) and full speed ahead says Captain Queeg. Social programs and health care are drag on the economy and cost too much. We will cut costs by slashing in those areas first. Look, look, we have oil and gas, and water too. Don't worry we'll get rid of pesky regulations. And we'll cut costs. Forget Toys are Us - that was last year when we wanted planes and military toys. Our new slogan will be Austerity is Us. Plus, low low low corporate tax rates and lots of business loans.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;">If the austerity budget cuts are deep and sharp, is that the right thing to do now? I think that as the world works it's way into another major recession/depression, more austerity is not the answer. Governments that <em><strong>can</strong></em> spend, <strong><em>should</em></strong> spend major amounts on infrastructure . (Note that Mr. Harper has repeatedly said that we are in better shape than other first world countries) This would increase employment and boost the economy. When times improve, and they would, then governments can pay down debt. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;">A footnote of sorts. Once upon a time, actually, it wasn't all that long ago, many Canadians worried about Western Alienation. We kept hearing, The West wants in. Well, news flash, Eastern Alienation is rising and my Canada which does include Quebec, is not in favour of an American style government - for the rich, by the rich. The social contract is at the heart of Canadian identity. At least I think it is. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000066;">What do you think?</span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-1950077701569505822012-01-03T14:49:00.006-05:002012-01-03T15:33:37.539-05:00I'm In First Gear, Again<span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;">It's been a long while between blog updates. Now that December has finally ended and the darkest part of the year has passed; I've restarted my writing engine. A lot happened in the last month of 2011. I moved my friend, The Bear, into a long-term care facility on December 1st. Everything had to be done lickety-splickety [I know that should say lickety-split] , or even faster and thanks to The Viking's help, it all worked out. I was limp toast by the end of the day, but The Bear adjusted easily to the change of location. The staff at his new home are very good with him and I'm extremely thankful for that.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;">There have been changes within my family too. Life has not been easy for any of us in December, but the New Year can bring with it a fresh approach and renewed hope for a better future.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;">Yes, I have some New Year's resolutions, but they are too modest to mention in any detail. Mainly, I plan to move forward with my writing projects at whatever speed I can manage, with occasional short side trips and detours. For example; comments on American politics might appear on my blog, if I am able to make them without over-ranting. Also, now that we have GO train service between Kitchener and Toronto, and, now that The Bear is finally settled; I may be able to go out of town for more than a day at a time. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;">Blessings to all of you for 2012.</span><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;"></span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#330099;"></span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-39906417949884115052011-11-09T14:06:00.007-05:002011-11-10T06:02:12.539-05:00A Private in the 'Great War'<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">My grandfather, John Wesley Abray, served in World War One. He was one of the many thousands of Canadians who volunteered to enlist and became members of the CEF (Canadian Expeditionary Forces). He joined in 1915 and I have copy of his Attestation Paper issued by the Canadian Over-Seas Expeditionary Force. At that time, he was 20 years old, single, listed his occupation as well driller, and lived in the village of Highgate Ontario. He answered the question "Do you understand the nature and terms of your engagement?" with yes.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">John had absolutely no idea what that yes meant. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">When he swore his Oath of Allegiance to His Majesty, King George the Fifth and His Heirs and Successors, he also swore to obey all orders of all the Generals and Officers set over him. The document notes that he was 5' 5" tall had a 37 inch chest, a fair complexion, grey eyes, and fair hair. His religion is listed as either Methodist or Congregationalist - the typed-in X straddles the line. The Certificate of Medical Examination says "He can see at the required distance [not listed] with either eye, his heart and lungs are healthy he has the free use of his joints and limbs and declares that he is not subject to <strong><em>fits</em></strong> of any description." A very cursory exam to be sure, but troops from the colonies were badly needed.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Like many men who grew up in rural areas, my grandfather had skills that would prove to be useful during the war. He was already very good shot and belonged to a local rifle club. He was familiar with horses and mules and he was good at fixing machinery and drawing maps. He could also cook and sew, if necessary.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">He received his training in London Ontario and then his Battalion was shipped overseas. A lot of the letters that he sent home gave his location as simply "somewhere in France." The field postcards said almost nothing. Letters home were regularly opened and censored, but one letter John sent to his father escaped that fate. In it, he explains that he was at the Ypres Salient and after that he was at the Somme front. A lot of his friends were killed or maimed, or lost their minds. </span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">John had been one of the soldiers who delivered supplies and ammunition to the front every night, after that he had been the driver of a machine gun carriage and later still he had been posted in the advance trenches [too close to the German line to be hit - he wrote].</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Eventually, he was wounded but not too seriously according to his letters. He was sent England to recover and when he was well he was sent back to France and then to Belgium. He was wounded again and returned to England. He finally arrived back in Canada in 1919.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">He never forgot how very lucky he was to come home. He married his girl, Vera. She had waited faithfully for him to return. Eventually they settled in Windsor. I'm blessed to have lived with my grandparents from the age of seven until I was almost twenty. Although my grandfather died in 1963, I'll always honour his memory.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Who will you honour on November 11, 2011?</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-12896896534160829722011-10-28T14:48:00.003-04:002011-10-28T16:28:21.172-04:00Halloween Approacheth. Do You Need "Spackle" to Sparkle?<span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">The last day of October has multiple meanings for me. It's All Hallows Eve, or Hallow e'en and it's the anniversary of the day I married my former and only husband. There was not a lot of demand for the use of the church that afternoon in 1963, and we did not have a Hallow e'en themed reception or Rocky Horror Picture Show type costumes. Instead, there was cake and tea as befitted a family with Methodist roots and, at that time, a lot of older teetotal relatives. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">In fact, there was a fair bit of family frowning about Hallow e'en customs. When I was a child and my great-grandmother lived with us, she terrorized the neighbourhood children by inviting them in and then sternly demanding that they perform a trick before they could leave. Quite a few of the children left without doing anything, and so they collected no candy. I guess that saved some money. And thrift is a virtue, or so I'm told. I truly do not recall ever dressing up and going trick or treating, door to door. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">When my daughter was old enough to be out for Hallow e'en she quite enjoyed the experience, or so she led me to believe and when she had children, they also participated in the ritual until they were in their teens. I tend to think that trick or treating should be restricted to children twelve and under, but perhaps that is just my crotchety protestant background getting in the way of what might be appropriate for this generation.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">Hallow e'en is definitely a time when people can go all out with their make-up and costumes, the more outrageous, or sexy or scary, the better and that is my segue to - Do You Need Spackle to Sparkle. Yesterday at the supermarket checkout counter, I was possessed by one of those small urges that lead to small regrets later. I bought a copy of Good Housekeeping magazine. I still don't know why I did it and must beg to be excused for such uncharacteristic behaviour. As many of you no doubt know, such magazines can often be perused in under ten minutes. There was one legitimate article about Gabby Giffords (the congress woman). Then there was this faux article - Is Your Makeup Aging You? Hmm, well, all I use is lipstick, occasionally, and blusher, once in a great while, but maybe it could learn something. I did. I learned that there is a face moisturizer or "a hydrating primer ... Laura Geller Spackle Under Make-Up Primer... original or luminescent." I had to reread the promo to make sure I wasn't learning about crack filler and wall paint. If you are going to paint your face for a Hallow e'en party the luminescent base would be appropriate ($27.50).</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">I plan to stay home and read a book on Hallow e'en night. What are you doing?</span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-42893783208837944752011-10-14T14:25:00.006-04:002011-10-14T18:15:06.978-04:00If I Could<span style="font-size:130%;">I wonder what would happen if I could give Mark Carney, Governor of the Bank of Canada, and Paul Krugman, American economist and previous Nobel Prize winner, a magic potion which they could distribute to international corporate CEO's, international bankers, and political leaders. The potion would be designed to open the minds of those who imbibed it.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">And so ... Bankers would discover that reasonable regulation, as proposed by Mr. Carney, would not ruin them. Political leaders would discover that too much austerity, at the wrong time, leads only to more and more austerity, and less and less ability to improve the world economies, as Paul Krugman has shown (NY Times, and books ) and read his Op Ed on Rabbit Hole Economics <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/14/opinion/rabbit-hole-economics.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss">http://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/14/opinion/rabbit-hole-economics.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss</a> . What would CEO's discover? Perhaps they might find out that they are frail and human. Although, the jury may still be out on that one.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">If I could, I would have Dick Cheney and George Bush drink a potion that would give them the same sensations that being water boarded caused in the prisoners they agreed could be tortured.</span> Do you suppose that would change their tiny minds?<br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-14866887847841770352011-09-30T19:10:00.006-04:002011-10-01T08:46:45.529-04:00A Dress Code for People with Dementias? The R Word<span style="color:#000099;">On Tuesday, I escorted The Bear to his new quarters. He is now in a secure (locked) unit in the same retirement home. It's not long-term care but it is a safer environment for him. Everything happened very quickly and fortunately I was able to keep him occupied while his furniture was relocated. I persuaded him to visit the roof-top patio on the second floor. He had always wanted to see "where the eagles are" - decorative posts that look somewhat like birds when you view them from the courtyard. Anyone can take the elevator up to the secure area, but you need to know the secret code in order to return to the main floor. </span><br /><br /><span style="color:#000099;">I have only a small amount of guilt about not telling him in advance that he would be moving to a new room. Bears, particularly grumpy old bears, hate change of any kind. To avoid a tantrum, I made sure the room looks as much like his old room as possible. And so far, that seems to have worked. </span><br /><br /><span style="color:#000099;">I was able to have lunch with him and check out the other people who live in the secure unit. I noticed that several of the ladies, yes I must refer to them as ladies, looked at me askance and frowned at The Bear. He was wearing a vee neck tee shirt with a polo shirt over it and, um "leisure pants" aka pajama bottoms and slippers; and I was in jeans, We did not fit in with the rest of the crowd [ I should note here that the base cost for living on this unit is almost $3900 per month and that does not include drugs, incontinence products, and other things ], perhaps that explains the toniness of attire I observed. The Bear will continue to wear pajama bottoms because he likes them and can mostly remember how to put them on and they allow air to circulate. Ahem. That is important when a fella can't remember when to whiz.</span><br /><span style="color:#000099;"></span><br /><span style="color:#000099;">Moving on to a completely different subject. The world is in a recession. But ssssh, no one is supposed to use the evil R word. Signs are everywhere but never mind - the VSP's "Very Serious People" as Paul Krugman, (read his column in the NY Times) r</span><span style="color:#000099;">efers to them will fix everything by imposing more austerity. Yup, that is the answer folks. But don't tax the very rich - in fact give them more breaks - and they'll be gracious unto y'all. Wanna bet on that one?</span><br /><span style="color:#000099;"></span><br /><span style="color:#000099;">Until the next time.</span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-61393917884727685572011-08-13T07:09:00.005-04:002011-08-13T08:25:10.127-04:00I've Been Promoted or Perhaps, Demoted
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<br /><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;">Life has been a bit more stressful lately and so I haven't updated my blog for a while. As some of you may recall, my friend, The Bear, lives in a retirement home on the assisted care unit. Three and a half years ago when The Bear was in hospital and extremely ill, I agreed to become his Power of Attorney for finances and for health care. When it was time for him to leave the hospital he was not able to live on his own, so I relocated him to the retirement home where he is now. He adjusted to his new home and did well in spite of his gradual memory loss and his chronic illnesses. But then, about three months ago his memory loss began to accelerate and his physical problems increased too.</span>
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<br /><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;">He needs more nursing care now, the kind of care that is provided in a Nursing Home, and he is not able/competent to decide where he would get the best care. I was sure of this, but it has been difficult to get the powers that be to agree with me. However, on Thursday when his ability to make decisions was reassessed by a nurse who had never met him before; he was finally declared not competent. Up until Thursday - if by some weird fluke a nursing home bed had become available (He was on the waiting list but not as a priority.) - he could have refused to go. I agree that a person who is competent and fully aware of the consequences of their decision should have the right to refuse care, but The Bear is not "all there" any more.</span>
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<br /><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;">I suppose it's rude to say he's not "all there." Maybe his memories and his logic are in there somewhere, but he can't access them anymore. His condition does sometimes give rise to unintentional humour though. When I saw him on Thursday he asked me which organization I belonged to. When I said - none - he became agitated and insisted that I must be one of those "You know - Ladies of the afternoon." </span>
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<br /><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;">I was perplexed. At first I thought he referred to "Ladies of the Evening". I've never been one and now I'm too old to join their society. After a few more questions, I was able to determine that he thought I was a Catholic religious lady - a nun in civvies. </span>
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<br /><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;">So, depending on how you view it, I've either been promoted to sanctity or demoted to just another religious lady. </span>
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<br /><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;">I've been informed that the wait-time for a Nursing Home bed for The Bear could be less than six months, or it could be more than a year. In the meantime, I'll keep visiting him on a regular basis. I have no idea who he might think I am next week. </span>
<br />Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-51205730378484858312011-06-30T17:26:00.002-04:002011-06-30T17:49:09.639-04:00Happy Birthday, My Canada. What Will you Be?<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Canada is .... fill in the blank. Canada is not easily defined, like a teenager about to become an adult we are stilll growing and changing and perhaps that is what makes our country unique</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Canada is ... a linking of disparate cultures. A refusal to melt, but sometimes, a willingness to bend toward one another.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Canada is ... a country whose citizens worship many different gods, or none.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Canada is ... a country working towards tolerance Canadians want to believe that our country is ... accepting, open and peaceful . That is the story we tell ourselves. We can make it a reality. It's up to all of us.</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;">Happy Canada Day!</span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"></span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-42374972147869122512011-06-17T20:16:00.006-04:002011-06-18T10:57:59.331-04:00Blink, Blink, Blink. Books. What's My Job Now?<span style="font-size:130%;">After my cataracts were slurped away and the shiny new lenses were put in, it took me quite a while to recover to the point where I could focus on print for more than a few minutes. Now fortunately, my visual acuity has improved and I finally have new glasses and a new view on the world. I see my wrinkles more clearly now so I have decided to let the bathroom mirror remain hazy. I also see more dust and may have to close the blinds more often. I blink more now too - I was always a good blinker - so perhaps if I blink and bob my head at the same time I can make the dust bunnies disappear. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">When I couldn't read, I spent more time listening to CBC radio One and also paid more regular visits to Tim Hortons. I can see the results of that too, and a future sans pastries has commenced. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">It's lovely to be able to read again and I have to take a moment to recommend <strong><em>the BOY</em></strong>, by Betty Jane Hegerat, published by Oolichan Books, Fernie British Columbia, 2011. Hegerat weaves non-fiction and fiction together in a unique way as she writes about two boys, one her fictional creation, and the other, the convicted killer of his entire family (based on the murders of the Cook family in 1959). It made me think about all the influences that shape us during our growing-up years. It also made me ponder how quick we are to judge people who don't fit. If I were giving out stars, it would receive five out of five. It's well-written, thought provoking and riveting. That's a rare combination, I'd say.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I also read <strong><em>Never Say Die</em></strong>, The Myth and Marketing of The New Old Age by Susan Jacoby, Pantheon Books New York, 2011. Because gerontology is one of my interests, and because I'm one of the young old, I occasionally read this kind of work. Jacoby debunks the myth that old age can be defied, or should be deified, and will make every American who reads this book worry about what they are likely to face when they enter their late 80's early 90's and are frail. The American health care system, or lack thereof, will face a crisis of funding. Oh, the wealthy will be able to afford the latest and greatest in new body parts and treatments, but the oldest, poorest and sickest people (almost all of them will be women) will suffer.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Canada will also have problems (who elected those damned Conservatives), however, at the moment we have a one-payer system which is more efficient - and could be still more efficient, if certain measures were instituted. The book also led me to consider "the ethics of longevity" which she examines in the tenth chapter. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">The third book I want to mention came out last year. <strong><em>Griftopia</em></strong>: Bubble Machines, Vampire Squids, and the Long Con That Is Breaking America; by Matt Taibbi, published by Spiegel & Grau, New York, 2010. Taibbi is a contributing editor for <em>Rolling Stone</em> magazine. When he began to look at the causes of the huge financial crisis/market crash of 2008, he was stunned to discover how it had happened and how easily it can and probably will happen again. This book was not an easy read, not just because there is a lot of technical information (I had to read some sections twice) but also because of the information that illustrates how the amoral "grifters" transferred so much wealth to themselves at the expense of ordinary folk and will continue to do so. The writer uses very frank language in places so if you dislike colourful swearing, be warned. Be warned also that if you are thinking of investing in the stock market, don't put anything in that you can't afford to lose. Actually, unfortunately, we are all indirectly invested in the stock market thanks to governments, etc. but we can't do anything about the indirect stuff. Sorry. It's a book that will give you a slow burn.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">And finally, an observation. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">"What's my job now?" My friend, The Bear, who suffers from memory loss and confusion asked me that the other day. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">He will be 83 next month and resides in an assisted living facility. I thought about that for a minute and then I said "Your job now is just to be you. That's all."</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">"Oh, yeah, I can do that," he said.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">What's your job?</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"></span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-71598611701856561022011-03-27T19:21:00.009-04:002011-03-28T12:41:39.343-04:00Five Weeks Until Decision Day<span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Canadians will go to the polls to elect a federal government on May 2nd. Five weeks is a very short campaign time, especially when compared to the American system. Although, it could be argued that the Conservatives, who formed the now defeated government have been campaigning for at least the last six months.</span> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Evidently, the Conservatives, under Harper's banner (and often beneath his feet) will say they are the only ones who can be trusted to guide the economy and will also continue to say that we should all fear "the coalition."</span> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">As for the Liberals, their approach will be to try to regain their traditional voters, and new ones too of course, by offering new programs (in a new budget) and by pledging there will not be a "coalition". The Liberals would not rule out working with other parties, and, I can assure you, that if they had to, the Conservatives would do the same thing. </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">I have only a couple of points to make, so bear with me. </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Point Number One: In critical ways, the Conservatives did NOT "guide" the economy. We were saved from the most disastrous financial fallout by more cautious banking system rules (which the Conservatives wanted to change) and partly by sheer luck. The money that was poured out by the government after it denied the situation for months, may have made some difference, but there are economists who think it made only a very minor impact. </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Point Number Two: "The coalition." In theory, a formal coalition of Harper's Conservatives and the Layton's New Democrats is a possibility. In practice, I don't think it could work. Harper wouldn't bend far enough to the left to suit Layton. The Liberals and the New Democrats could form a coalition but Ignatieff assures us there will be no coalition. And furthermore, the Bloc Quebecois could not be a formal part of any coalition.</span> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">I don't know which party will win. </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">My biggest concern is that Harper is a stubborn ideologue. We have had pushy Prime Ministers before but no other Prime Minister has channeled so much power and control through the PMO (Prime Minister's Office). That is too unparliamentary to suit me. And when I add in the fact that the Conservatives were found to be -<em><strong> in contempt of parliament</strong></em>- and the leader of the Conservatives stated that "The Canadian public don't care about these manoeuvres in parliament," well, frankly, I become angry. </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">I'm sure I'm not the only one who cares about how parliamentary democracy should work.</span> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Do you care?</span> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Til next time.</span> (the para breaks have disappeared - sorry - it seems to be a Google problem) <span style="font-size:100%;color:#000000;"></span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-20847205860605447222011-03-22T12:10:00.006-04:002011-03-22T13:16:28.586-04:00Eyes Front! Part Two - And Other Things<span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;">The surgery to remove the cataract in my left eye took place on March 2, and so far, the results seem good. It can take up to a month or more after surgery to know just how good. For the first three or four days, the world was quite blurry when viewed through the new lens but things have improved. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;">I still don't understand why one has to be at the hospital three hours beforehand, but my mission was to obey orders. Eventually; that is, after waiting around in one spot, and then in another spot, a small intravenous gadget was inserted in my left hand and it contained a "relaxing" medication. Then, I had the opportunity to sit around some more and listen to other people's comments about the surgeon and what he was about to do to me. Thank goodness, the comments were positive.The surgery took place on time, almost to the minute. When he started I felt a strong sensation of pressure on my eye but no sharp pain and the sensation did not last long. The whole procedure didn't take more than 15 minutes. That was great because the physical positioning of my head was, well, weird. I was relieved when at last I was allowed to sit up again. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;">The Viking was waiting for me and I was extremely glad to see him. I'll admit I used the pain killers I'd been given that night. And, I wore my Johnny Depp disguise to bed (an eye patch). Somehow, it just didn't look glamorous on me. And I wasn't thrilled when the top of my hand turned dark brown either. The bruise has disappeared now.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;">Next week, on April 1, I'll have surgery on my right eye. I'm looking forward to the end result, but not to the first few days after the event. I know my "good' eye will be very blurry for a while. So, I won't be reading the newspaper, or watching TV. It will be radio time at the old hacienda.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;">Speaking of radio and with reference to the huge events that have occurred in the last several days. I found that CBC radio had the most up-to-date news when the disastrous events in Japan occurred. It's almost impossible to grasp the depth of the calamity and the suffering, Thousands of people have died, thousands more have lost everything, and no one knows yet what the cumulative effects of radiation released from the damaged nuclear facilities will be. Everyone should be thanking the workers who risked/are risking their lives as they attempt to prevent the release of more radiation and stop a potential core melt down. And, Canadians should be thankful that CANDU reactors are designed differently.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;">CBC radio has also reported extensively on the crisis in Lybia. It's impossible to know what will happen next in that situation. Perhaps the attempt to protect civilians will be successful, but that is by no means certain. I was surprised that the UN participants came to any sort of agreement. That might mean some leaders are learning that this is now an interdependent world. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#660000;">Til next time.</span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11669854.post-16149431494937499782011-02-25T16:53:00.003-05:002011-02-25T17:37:30.631-05:00Eyes Front! Part One<span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">On Wednesday March 2nd, I'll have my first cataract surgery. The operation takes only about 10 to 15 minutes. If you live to be over 60, or in some cases, even 40, you too can have this experience. It's the most common eye problem. Fortunately, thanks to new surgical techniques the success rate is very high. A small incision is made, then ultrasound is used to break up the cloudy lens. It is then sucked out and a new clear lens is inserted. And voila - the world becomes clearer and brighter, though in my case, not any closer.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">My left eye is a "lazy eye." I've always hated that term. It implies that the eye could do better but won't. That's not the case of course. Amblyopia, the official medical name for the condition, must be treated in early childhood. Mine was not and so my eye turns inward at times and doesn't work well with the other eye. It is also has low vision and is misaligned. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">So, I chose to have that eye operated on first. I collected all my prescription eye drops on Wednesday. There are three kinds and a detailed list of instructions. My surgeon has done a lot of this work and his office gave me a four colour page in large print that makes it easy to see what to use and when. There are also 10 Tylenol 2's. Wheee! Even one of those gives me very wild dreams, but I have no objection to that. I do object to receiving the meds in a child-proof bottle because I'll have a heck of a time opening it, if I need to.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">I'm glad my surgeon is experienced and familiar with all the latest technology. He's not green and he's not grey so he's just right, I hope. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">I've read a fair bit about what one is supposed to do and not do after the surgery, but have yet to receive the surgeon's instructions. Apparently, I'll get those immediately after the surgery. And I'll be seeing him the next day, although I don't have an appointment time yet. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">I'm trying hard not to think too much about the fact they won't be using a general anesthetic. I'd rather be asleep, but will have to be awake but "relaxed." I haven't been told what they'll give me to achieve a relaxed state. I vote for a heavy duty drug.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">After the surgery, I'm supposed to have someone with me until the next morning. The Viking has volunteered. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">I suspect I'll have to limit my computer use for a while but don't know for sure.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">I'll post Part Two sometime after the first surgery. I'm looking forward to a more vivid spring.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;">Til next time. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#006600;"></span>Diane Girardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01529510727685982869noreply@blogger.com8